Strength or Weakness...????

Everyone of us wants to be fearless, everyone advice us to 'how to be fearless', everyone does stupidity while making themselves fearless, in order to make our own prestige we try some weird things to show others that I am fearless...."people will laugh at me if I fear"...this thought has already made you afraid then why to pretend to be fearless.. ....

So heres my question to all...that why do you want to be fearless..?

If your answer for this question is that being fearless gives you confidence then it's most probably true, but does it gives you satisfaction in your work that you have performed by pretending fearless...thus, it give you a sigh of a relief that 'Yes I had done 'in a sudden shock... There's my point then , that when we do something having fear of it and we get success the happiness at that time is just way different than what you get when you pretend to be fearless... and then you say that my fear about doing that particular thing has vanished now...

Fear is not fixed it is different for different things ...now most importantly what type of fear I am talking is not of what we say that , 'I have a fear of water , I have a fear of heights, etc...the kind of fear am talking is fear arising while doing something new ... or which is new for you....and it can be any silly thing...

It can be the fear of talking with a stranger,it can be fear of visiting a new place, it can be a fear of first day at school, college or of your job.The fear can also be of something which you are master at...such as if you are good at playing guitar then too, you would have fear of presenting it in your first concert, or it could be a fear of presenting a presentation in office as your boss has trusted you for the very first time.....or speaking in front of millions of your followers even though you are very famous.... This fear is not at all bad...as it is part of our action , it will always help us to be more effective , will help us to work more potentially, and will help us to know new things every time... Now the biggest fear for each one of us or except some very GENIUS peoples is the fear of EXAM.... I know you will agree with me ....but its habitual even if we know that after 2 weeks there are our exam but still we will start our preparation 2 days prior or even 1 (some of you might be smiling as it is true in your case...right...) as we are bound to take pressure of it and wants to be in fear of exam...

Now how does it help us :

1. By performing it : Today is a big day for me, it' s my first and last chance...I have to do it but I am getting nervous....this is something which we everyone go through and trust me this feeling is the first step to your success....and this feeling will arise only and only then when you will actually perform what you fear to....so accept every challenge and perform it....accept every challenge and perform it....

2. working on it: Now if you have accepted challenge then it' s must to perform , this is what called as fear...the fear which will drive you to work on given piece with dedication and to complete it before timelines....provided.

3. Helps in gaining extra knowledge: some topic or any work which you are doing it for the first time but you dont know much of it and you are afraid of it , this fear helps you try to look for something which can help to deal with this problem thus you gain much knowledge of it and hence you can answer any question asked on it....this will even improve your personality, and prestige among others .

So there are many such things which can be improved by being afraid....because "DARR KE AAGE JEET HAI"...

Hence, make fear your strength and not weakness....

so this is it for today....hope you like it ....and please do share some of your experience if you have any when you are afraid and it might have helped you, you can share any incident through comment..... for now toodles....